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WAVER

Level: Advanced

Energy tends to not like too much strictness.

Therefore use the concept of wavering to ease energy into a position.  Don't fear the opposite.  Don't block the opposite with a hard barrier to be battered by energy.  Something strict / hard is an easy target for Attack to negate.  Instead gradually accept the situation as is and that it isn't the opposite.  Bend so you don't break.  But stick to your guns because of your belief in self.

It's said that in every breath one breathes in a molecule of Cæsar's last breath.  This is because of the massive amount of molecules in that last breath plus the amount of time now for these molecules to have spread over the planet.  This shows that all is in all.  Get used to it; it's natural.  It's the amount of blending that's in question.  See chapter Levels.